I accept that the government is not to blame, but I have always been uncomfortable with Bali. It was put well by a friend who said: let's go to Bali and pretend it's not really part of Indonesia. There is always politics in a choice of holiday destination, although most people seem not to focus on it. I won't be going there any time soon, but that was already true. Other destinations are on my no go list, surprisingly even one destination here in NZ. But the full list is not for publication.